How Would Your Ex Describe You?

Maybe you were both very young. Maybe one of you messed up royally, and it drove the relationship completely into the ground. But whatever the case, you're the one that got away. If circumstances had been different, if life was a little more fair, your ex would ideally want to be with you. There's a past there that can't be erased, but unfortunately, it's still the past. And that's where it should stay.

Maybe you broke up on the best of terms. Maybe you both thought it would work out better as friends. And you know what? That's rare! In the eyes of your ex, you're an awesome person who's worthy of true love with someone far better than them. You're brilliant, and you both shared great memories together. There's no romantic love there, but if you called them up, they'd be happy to call you a friend.

Honestly, compared to every other person your ex has dated, you're kind of... lost in the back, completely forgotten. Your ex doesn't think about you at all! Unless someone brings you up, they don't go around remembering things about you, ever. This isn't so much a reflection of you as the fact that this person didn't love you deeply and honestly. It ended for a reason, and your life has been better for it!

You're the thought that crosses their mind when they're at their lowest. You're not a pillar of strength to them but the person who is everything they aren't. This person feels horrible about who they are and what they do--their choices, their appearance, everything. The low self-esteem is real, and when they think of you, well, let's just say they get a little jealous. You've grown and blossomed since the relationship ended.

You're the worst person to ever breathe, according to your ex. While this is probably untrue, they swear up and down that you're no good. You're the reason for the breakup, because you didn't value anything. You had other priorities. And they were far more invested in the relationship than you. This ended up being a mess, because when someone doesn't really care, they're selfish. And your selfishness led to the destruction of the relationship.