Are You Understanding Or Judgmental?

You know people have rough days, and you know different experiences and ways of being raised can impact a person greatly. You're never the first to judge anyone, but you're always the first to see their side. You enjoy learning why people do what they do, why they think a certain way, or why they say what they say. There's a story behind everything, and no one understands that better than you.

Although you are interested in asking why, you don't always do it. It's a bit of a bias problem. For instance, if someone you don't know very well does something, you immediately seek to understand the full story. But when someone you do know does something, your first instinct is to judge. Why? Because you feel like you know them well enough to not have to ask questions anymore.

You like to judge people always. The reasons are simple: people tend to do crazy things for similar reasons all the time, and everyone else judges, so why not you? It's easy to point a finger and criticize when you've seen things happen over and over again. And everyone else has an opinion to share anyway, so why not join in on the fun?