Are You Not In Love, A Little In Love, Or Very Much In Love?

Sure, you may have butterflies in your stomach, or you once felt over the moon for someone, but it was not or is not real, enduring love. Perhaps you have realized that you want different things, or that it was just a passing thing. Perhaps your S.O. is not ready for love and does not treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve. If you have not come to a conclusion, think about it: can you picture your life without them? If so, perhaps there is someone better out there for you.

Your relationship is just starting, or your relationship is on its last legs. You are probably mature and not looking to jump into something head-first without looking. You probably understand what love actually is, and that it is not all about fun. Still, you would like it to be fun, and who would blame you? Give it some time to let love grow or give it some time to fizzle out so you can move on naturally.

You may not even realize this because it may have been a long time since the two of you did anything romantic together, but you are in love. Your love is withstanding the test of time. It is not infatuation, because you know who you are dealing with, and you accept their flaws and love them anyway. You truly understand what love is and what it takes to keep it going. You took the good with the bad, but it is mostly good when you think about it. There is nowhere else you want to be.