How To Spice Up Your Relationship?

It seems as though you have hit someone of a routine that doesn't involve taking care of your partner all that much. You might do their laundry or pick up take-out for dinner, but when's the last time you really focused on just their needs? Think of what they care about the most and see how you can help them.

You might hit the sheets a few times a week or even every night for some action, but outside of the bedroom there isn't much going on. You need to do some hand-holding, kissing, and snuggling on the couch instead of sitting at opposite ends. You'll be surprised at how much of a difference those little things can make.

When is the last time the two of you have been someplace together? It seems like it's been a while. You've gotten so into the regular routine you've forgotten you need time alone together. Even if it's a bed and breakfast for the weekend, you need to get out and do something!

You've gotten so used to your guy or gal taking care of you, they feel more like a parent than a partner. It's time for you to try doing some things for yourself once in a while. They are going to get a little relief and feel so proud of you; things will naturally spice right back up the way you want them to be.

It's almost like the two of you are living separate lives at this point. You do your thing, and they do yours. There are no tasks that you complete together, and you need that to bond. Even if it's something as simple as doing the dishes side-by-side, you might be surprised at what a difference that can make in your life.

Some people say that you can say 'I love you' too much to a point where it doesn't mean anything anymore, but that's not true. You should always say it: first thing in the morning, throughout the day, and the last thing at night. Even if your partner doesn't seem to mind not saying it, trust us, they do.