I rather know upfront. I wouldn't be with him, because loyalty means more to me than anything. I'd want him to work on himself. To never do it again. I'd have to accept that. And decide if I can't. Because if I can't, I'd have to break things off. I'd feel disrespected. I'd feel violated. So we'd have to work things out. I want the same rights. ▶ Next Question ◀