Are You A Good Boyfriend?

You don't tell your girlfriend anything. When she needs to talk or vent, you're not around. You have a habit of not answering calls, putting your buddies above her, and leaving her texts on read. In fact, you don't even take her out anywhere nice. She's always the last to find out terrible news about you, about something you've done. And you have a knack for making her cry. You are NOT a good boyfriend, and once she sees that, she'll be GONE for good, in the arms of a man who REALLY loves her.

You used to be terrible. You would leave her hanging, keep secrets, backstab, you name it. But as time went on, you began wanting to change. You've improved dramatically. But see, here's the thing: you should never change for anyone, no matter how noble the cause. You should change for yourself, because you want to be a better person. If that's not the reason, you're just going to resent her later. Dating should be easy. If you have to fake it to hang, then it's just not the right fit.

You are a good boyfriend. You take your girl out, you tell her things, you don't lie or betray her trust, and you're there when she needs to talk about something. All in all, it's an easy relationship, and you two get along just fine. You go places, do things, talk or just lie there in comfortable silence. It's simple. Simply good. You can pat yourself on the back!

Now you are an amazing boyfriend. In other words, you're not just a good catch, you're husband material. And yes, there's a difference. Most women find a nice man at some point, someone who is a good boyfriend. But you know what? That fire, that love, that... deep connection... sometimes just isn't there. But with you? You're strong, dependable, trustworthy, kind, funny, charming, and easy-going. You can hang with her friends, and you don't shy from her family, whom actually all love you.