Should I Cheat on My Husband?

It seems like you have a pretty good marriage. If you think there will be more excitement with another person, you should probably carefully rethink. Most affairs don't work out. Try to find some excitement at home. Your husband might know you're bored. Tell him! Men have vivid imaginations. He probably already has ideas for spicing things up!

So you have a couple of issues. What relationship doesn't? It sounds like your marriage is pretty workable. Take the time to interact with your husband in positive ways. Have a good heart to heart talk and tell him if there's something that's bothering you. You can fix this!

You might have more than a few issues with your husband but it's probably nothing that you can't fix. So fix what's broken and then find ways to ignite your passion for the man you fell in love with. He's worth it. You just need to dust him off a little and bring him up to date with who you are now.

It seems like your marriage is a little rocky. Remember that you love, or once loved, this person. Cheating will hurt him. If he's a cheater and you're thinking about revenge - why? It's better to get things out in the open and deal with them. Talk to a marriage counselor about your situation and ask them how to approach your husband for counseling.

So it sounds like things are pretty crummy in your marriage. But, the show is still on if you need a second opinion. You can still take a step back. Cheater don't just cheat their spouses, they cheat themselves. Cheating will have far-reaching effects on your personal self-worth. Don't go there. Treating YOUR commitment to marriage with respect is important for you. If you feel comfortable, talk to your husband about your concerns and give him the chance to respond.