Am I Hot?

Not only do you have an amazing body, gorgeous face, luscious hair, and a smoldering way of looking at someone you're deeply attracted to, you also carry yourself in a way that exudes confidence, friendliness, and above all, your own brand of charm. You know how to cut loose and laugh at yourself, be easy going about things, you know - good qualities. But you also know when to focus. Oh, and your clothes? Whew!

You're hot, but you don't know that you're hot, and in fact, you think you're just not. It's this disbelief that makes you actually hide your body, or feel self-conscious in a lot of things that actually look really, really good! And it shows, and detracts from your hotness. Otherwise, you're funny, smart, charming, goofy, and yet serious somehow. All hot things. And you're attractive! So own it! Self-love is key!

You know what? This isn't as bad as it sounds. Being on neutral ground means you can go up (hot) or down (cold) depending on a) what you wear, b) how you carry yourself, and c) your confidence. Be nice, be friendly, be original, be full of self-love and acceptance. Be happy in your own skin. And we promise, you'll suddenly feel comfortable enough to experiment with the clothes. Once you do that, BOOM, you're hot!

You're cold, meaning you're not hot. But we'll tell you why: it's because you haven't found your own. You don't have a style, you don't explore things like pop culture, different hobbies, or anything that would otherwise make you relatable and easy to talk to, and you kind of lack an overall identity. This lack of self-improvement and definition actually makes it hard for anyone to know the real you. And that's never hot.

Okay, you can change this. We've all seen the movies where the super ugly girl turns into a gorgeous swan. And you're not ugly. You're just unmanaged. Pluck those eyebrows, watch makeup tutorials, find a style that reflects your personality, and stick to it. Go shopping for key pieces you can wear in many different ways. And most of all. . . Work on you. What are some glaring things about your personality that you wish you could change? Maybe you're overly talkative, or don't respect people?