Perfect Man Qualities

Your perfect man is an honest one. We're not talking above making mistakes here, we're talking at least owning up to the fact that he makes mistakes. Honest about everything, the good the bad, the inbetween. This is a guy who will never pull punches, even if what he has to say hurts you, because he doesn't want to sneak around behind your back, lie, or lead you on.

Your perfect man is a loyal one. This is a guy who only truly has eyes for you. Sure, he may see other women because he's not blind. He'll notice when someone, anyone, male or female, is in his line of sight. But, that being said, there's a difference between checking someone out, versus looking at someone like you would look at a tree, or mailbox. At the end of the day, he only wants to be with you. You and only you. And he doesn't fantasize about others. Nor sleep around.

This is a guy who actively listens to your feedback, and seeks to make improvements within himself to become a better person. For instance, maybe he's blunt with his words, and it actually hurts your feelings sometimes. You mention it, and so the next time the opportunity presents itself, he will be more careful with his words, because he understands that he needed to work on it. That's growth.

This guy has seen you at your best and your worst. He knows you fart, and he knows you probably ugly cry. He knows your quirks, your annoyances, pet peeves, and bad habits. In other words, he knows you for who you really are, all sides of you. And he isn't going anywhere. That's the perfect guy you want, because you've always been told to change everything about yourself in order to be appreciated and loved.

Your perfect man is all about equality. He doesn't need you for an ego boost, and he doesn't need you for validation or need meeting. No, in this guy's eyes, you would be an equal partner, someone with as many rights as he does in the relationship. He respects your ambitions, goals, loved ones, career path, hobbies, likes and dislikes. He respects you.