I tell her I am shocked and tell her she is wrong to even be considering the idea. I tell her to make a list of the positive and negative considerations and make a rational decision based on what she lists. I bring out the whiskey and ask her to dish all the dirt. I am sympathetic, but advise her against it because people will judge her negatively. I advise her, 'When in doubt, don't.' I have no idea what to say. ▶ Next Question ◀