Yes, she comes to my mom's in the morning, and I go to her parent's for the big meal. Yes, I usually see her either the night before the holiday, or on the evening of the holiday after family obligations. No, but I see her the day before and the day after. I used to, but not much anymore. No, that would be weird. Holidays are for families. I text her a happy greeting and then call her a few days later. ▶ Next Question ◀