How Dateable Am I?

You have things figured out. From holding down a job, to being old enough to realise that your parents really were right about some of that well-intended life advice they gave. You're friendly, you know who you are, you have your own style, you pay your bills, and overall, are just a responsible adult. You've learned a few things from at least 1-2 relationships when you were younger too, so you know what NOT to do.

You are missing a few things, like a tiny bit of self-confidence, maybe some stability, and even some social skills, to a small degree. The good news is that the media makes it seem like everyone is super picky, but... there's someone for everyone. You don't need to be perfect to find someone who'll be interested in dating you. Just make sure that you continue to work on yourself while you date. Be the best you can be for you, no one else.

You lack stability, you don't have the best social skills, you struggle to pay your bills on time, and you're clueless about who you are. More than that though, you really just aren't in the right frame of mind. To you, a relationship is like the end goal. It's the... main objective. And that shouldn't be it. You cannot idolize your partner, because then they will be subjected to meeting standards that they could never possibly meet. No one could. Hence, not very dateable. Take time to reflect!