How To Talk To Men?

Finding common ground is the best way to connect with people, regardless of gender. If you can find it, then you can talk to men easily! Maybe you play video games, and he does too, so that's bound to take up a lot of the conversation. Or maybe you enjoy sports, and he does too. Or even reading. You'd be surprised how many men read.

You talk too much, and a lot of it is irrelevant. Or it just. . . doesn't really add to the conversation. Sometimes it's your timing, but mainly it's you desperately trying to relate to everything. Instead, try listening more. It may seem counterproductive, but listening more allows you to learn, and it also makes it easier to contribute to the conversation when you actually find yourself relating to the topic.

Men like helping out, it's in their nature. But you don't want to be the damsel in distress who always seems to need help either. Instead, try asking for his opinion. This allows him to contribute, and gives you two something to talk about, but it doesn't paint you as useless either. Anything but that!