Am I Emotionally Intelligent?

You are aware of your strengths and weaknesses, you're at peace with the past, you live in the present, and you're not afraid of the future. You're also a skilled listener, capable of figuring out why you're upset. You even read people like books.

So you're willing to say no when you have to, and you don't mind helping people. You also think about your feelings and practice honesty. You apologize, and forgive and forget. BUT, you also get into a lot of arguments, and tend to blame others for mistakes.

You get into a lot of arguments, you don't understand feelings, and you think most people are overly sensitive. In fact, you refuse to listen to other points of view, and always blame others for your mistakes. When things get tough emotionally, you just check out, or have a sudden emotional outburst. Maybe this is why you seem to have difficulty maintaining friendships?