Are You A Bully?

So bad, in fact, that you come off like a bully! For instance, you a) come off like you're being underhanded because when asked anything, you give the shortest, most undetailed answers ever, and b) you will often leave half of what you're trying to say in your mind, and only really vocalize the half of your opinion or observation about someone, essentially making it seem like you're judging. It's somehow always the worst bits of your opinion, so you wind up sounding mean!

It's not like you're trying to be a bully, it's just that you can't help but be super honest. If you don't like something, you make it known. And when you make it known, you aren't afraid of getting into a whole conversation regarding that, even if you know it will turn into a debate. You love battles of wit, and you love hearing other people's opinions.

You know when you've crossed a line, but the problem is that there is a short circuit between your brain and your mouth. The minute you think of anything mean at all, you can't help but say it outloud. It's like the filtering process gets filtered out. You just need to work on thinking before you speak! We all have bad thoughts! No big deal.

There is no mistake, you're just a bully. Here's why: you know when you're about to say something mean and you do it anyway. You often have a chance to think before you speak, and you still choose to be mean. And you don't care about debating with people over opinions, no, because your word is basically law. You're the first to ruin a party, and the last to be nice to people. You are a bully!