How To Approach A Girl?

You seem to be one of those guys that might be a tech geek or you read a lot or you're into gaming. So don't use the strategies of a player. The girl for you won't respond well to stupid pickup lines. When you approach, take the mental attitude that you're meeting an interesting person. Find out what's interesting about her. When the conversation hits its stride, tell her you're interested in hanging out or maybe going on a date. Then give her your contact info and ask her to get in touch.

So, you're kind of a loner rebel type? You have to walk a fine line or you could seem creepy. Use your loner persona to your advantage, not your detriment. Don't maintain too much eye contact or you'll creep her out. When you make normal natural eye contact with her, watch her body language. If you look up again and she's still looking, it's okay to approach. Now all you have to do is remain interested in what she says. When she starts doing most of the talking, then you can ask her out.

You're a nice guy - and that really can be a good thing. Your challenge is going to be staying out of the friend zone. That starts from the moment you approach her. When you approach, just be yourself and say hi and start a conversation. To stay out of the friend zone, make your intentions clear later in the initial conversation. Ask her out and make sure you use the word 'date' in their somewhere. That way, if she says no, you know you haven't been friend zoned, she's just into something else.

You're a confident and open guy. You shouldn't have a problem approaching most girls. But you might with shy or introverted girls. To approach them, pay attention to their body language. Neither type likes to feel trapped. Make sure they have enough physical space and that you aren't blocking them. Don't ask probing questions. Keep it light. Ask them out in a way that gives them control like 'I'd like to hang out with you sometime. ' Don't ask for her number, let her offer it or give her yours.

It seems like you might have a tendency to not pay deep attention to those around you. Girls can see that. So, if you want to approach girls with any success, you're going to have to recognize that about yourself. When you see a girl you want to approach, look at yourself from her perspective. If your first thought is 'I'm a sexy beast! ', start over. Even if that's true, she won't like you if you know that you are. Tone it down. Be ACTUALLY interested in her and what she has to say.