What Does She Want?

She's your girlfriend, and she's ready for the next step buddy. The ball is in your court! Before you get shocked, you've been dating for a while. And you've reached a point in your relationship where things are running like a well-oiled machine. You two have a great time together, get along, and have a wonderful romance story to tell. You've been through a lot together, and came out on top, despite the odds. Marriage is kind of. . . logical!

That's right! Maybe a new position. Or maybe some flowers with some string lights and a candlelit dinner. Something that shows her you are very much into her. Remember, romance is anything that's new, sweet, and easy. Romance is far easier than people tend to think. You don't need a hot air balloon ride to be romantic. Just be different than your usual. If you cook dinner at home every night, try surprising her with delivery. Try small, new things to make her feel special.

That's right! She's interested, but you're not moving fast enough! Maybe you're not getting the blatantly obvious signs here. But she's ready for that step to finally happen. Try something small at first, like the classic coffee date. Or if you're both into art, go to a gallery. Maybe you both love to read, so you can find a fancy library to browse together, and show each other your favorite books. Make it cute!

She was once interested in you. For sure. But that time has passed. You've both changed so much, that now whatever she found interesting in you has faded away. It happens when people grow apart, rather than together. It takes effort to stay in love, but you both let it slip out of your fingers. It's okay to mourn the loss of a relationship, and it's okay to feel angry and want to blame her for not trying harder. But honestly, if it was meant to be, it wouldn't be this hard.